Conversation with Ben the other night over his pho (for those of you in the studio audience who don't know what pho is, it is a Vietnamese dish of noodles, broth etc).Ben: Mom I don't like the green stuff (cilantro). Me: Are you afraid it might kill you (sarcastically)? I'll eat it. I proceed to pick pick out the cilantro and eat it. A couple of minutes later. Ben: Mommy can you take out the green stuff? It might kill me. Note to self: must stop using sarcasm with three year olds.